The Big Rocks
One day an expert in time management was speaking to a group
of business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget.
Dr. Neil Chadwick
As he stood in front of the group of high powered over achievers
he said, "Okay, time for a quiz." Then he pulled out a one-gallon, wide mouthed Mason jar and set it on the table in front of
him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar.
When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit
inside, he asked, "Is this jar full?"
Everyone in the class said, "Yes."
Then he said, "Really?" He reached under the table and pulled
out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down
into the space between the big rocks.
Then he asked the group once more, "Is the jar full?"
By this time the class was on to him. "Probably not," one of
"Good!" he replied. He reached under the table and brought out a
bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel.
Once more he asked the question, "Is this jar full?" "No!" the
Once again he said, "Good." Then he grabbed a pitcher of water
and began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim. Then he looked at the class and asked, "What is the point of this
One eager beaver raised his hand and said, "The point is, no matter
how full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in it!"
"No," the speaker replied, "that's not the point. The truth this
illustration teaches us is: If you don't put the big rocks in first, you'll never get them in at all."
What are the 'big rocks' in your life?
relationship with God?
Your husband or wife?
Your loved ones?
A worthy cause?
Teaching or mentoring others?
Doing things that you love?
Time for yourself?
Remember to put these BIG ROCKS in first or you'll never get them
in at all. If you sweat the little stuff (the gravel, the sand) then you'll
fill your life with little things you worry about that don't really matter,
and you'll never have the real quality time you need to spend on the big, important stuff (the big rocks).
So, tonight, or in the morning, when you are reflecting on this short
story, ask yourself this question: What are the 'big rocks' in my life? Then, put those in your jar first.
Source: Dr. Chadwick's Joyful Ministry Email Circular, October 12, 2002